Wednesday, June 13, 2007

A Family Portrait of the Mellem Family

With all the talk about the Mellem's, I thought this would be a good time to show an early picture. Back row l to r: Ella, (1895), Nina, (1891), Emil, (1889), Carl, (1883), Peter, (1887), Theoline, (1885), Tina, (1893)

Front row l to r: Karen Carrie, (1877), Thorinus, (1854), Mabel, (1898), Pauline, (1856), Thea, (1881).

Dating the picture: I am going to say about 1905. I am looking at Mabel, standing between her parents, she looks about seven. Tina looks about ten. What do you think?


Up date on the land of Thorinus and Pauline

We all know that the Mellem's homesteaded in New Solum Township. What we didn't know was on a couple of the deeds, a small section of the land was set aside as not being part of the sale.

The recorder's office in Warren assisted in getting the mystery solved.

Here is the information from the time of the homestead to when Carl and Nina left Rosewood.

The Homestead of Thorinus and Pauline Mellem

January 31, 1891
Thorinus and Pauline were granted their homestead

June 19, 1924
Thorinus and Pauline to Carl Mellem for $3,000
July 24, 1943 Alice Mellem to Minnie Mellem for $1.00

November 30, 1943 Sylvia Mellem to Millie Mellem for $1.00

June 3, 1946
Chester Mellem, Minnie Mellem, and Fern Mellem to Kalbakdalen for $4,600.

There was, in the last two sales, a parcel of land set aside and not included in the transfer. The following information shows the land being sold to Bloom’s.

October 13, 1937
According to the deed record, this land was owned by Thorinus Mellem and sold it to Carl O Bloom and Nina Bloom for $300.00

October 22, 1958
Carl O and Nina Bloom to Arthur and Myrtle Swenson $1700.00

Monday, June 11, 2007

Portrait of Julia, Helen, and Eno Olson 1907

This wonderful picture is of L; Julia Olette Olson, Helen, and Eno in 1907.


We know that Julia Olette

Married

Henry T Rye

and had

nine children


We know that Eno registered for the WWI draft December 18, 1917. It is not known if he entered the active service.


The draft card states him as 25

A farm laborer

Born in Crookston

January 6, 1892

He was tall and of medium build

He had gray eyes and dark hair.


We know that Helen's

life

ended

in

murder

and

we

will

tell

the

gruesome

story

this

week.


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The Children of OK Olson and Gertrude Halgrimson

TO POST ON JUNE 12, 2007

Not much is known about Ole K Olson, we knew he was born in Norway in January 1842. There is a reference to an Ole K Olson dying in Crookston in 1928 but we can not be certain this is the father of Julia Clara Olson Rye, as the records do not indicate any next of kin.

We do know a bit about Gertrude: She was born on January 11, 1960-September 18, 1940. Her father's name was Andrew Halgrimson and he was born in Norway. According to the certificate of death, Gertrude was born in LaCrosse, Wisconsin.

OK and Gertrude married on April 4, 1880 in Fillimore County, MN.

Here are the children listed on the census

Oscar; September 12, 1876 in Freeborn County, MN

December 12, 1944 in Espelie, Marshall County, MN

He is buried in Rosendahl Church Cemetery.

His spouse was Tilda Peterson

Christine; 1883
Her spouse was Nils Jorgenson
I think we are still trying to chase this lead down.

Alfred; July 1885

Carrie Olson born in Minnesota in September 1887
She married Charles Dillion

Carl Olson; January 1888
Died October 1940 and is buried in Torgerson Cemetery

Julia Olette Olson; October 24, 1889 in Beltrami, MN
Died October 19, 1980 and is buried at Wildwood Cemetery at Rosewood, MN
Married Henry T Rye on December 9, 1908

Eno Gilmet Olson; January 6, 1892 in Crookston, MN
Died December 2, 1949 and is buried at Greenwood Cemetery in Thief River Falls
Married Myrtle Cora Quam; October 12, 1909- August 25, 2006
They married in 1925
Myrtle is buried at Greenwood Cemetery
It is said he dropped dead on the streets of Thief River Falls of a heart attack.

Henry H Olson; March 1894

Helen Olson; February 1896
Died May 21, 1914 near Goodridge, MN and buried at Torgerson Cemetery, near Goodridge, MN
Married to John Gilsoul

Inga Olson; March 1898
Died May 21, 1914 near Goodridge, MN and buried at Torgerson Cemetery near Goodridge, MN

We do know from reading the 1900 census that Ole K and Gertrude were living in Scandia Township in Polk County, MN.

We can learn the following information from the census, eventhough the enumerator took liberties in calculating birthdates.

Ole K Olson was the head of the house hold. It states he was born in January of 1841, and was 18 when he was first married. He and his parent's were all born in Norway, and Ole was a farmer. He came to the states with his parent's in 1852.

Gertrude is listed as a woman having ten children all of whom are living. Her name is spelled Gertrud and she was also 18 when she married. Now, tell me this, how can Gertrude, born in 1860 and Ole born in 1941 or 2, both be married at eighteen? Language barrier? Enumberator liberties? Married before? After all, the 1900 census does not ask how many times you have been married, only how many births and how many children living. In the top half of this document, we have an Oscar, did Gertrude OR Ole K have a son by someone else before she married OK Olson? What about Anne born in 1889? Was she away when the census was taken and reported on another document some where?

Alfred; July 1884
  1. Karen M; September 1886
  2. Carl; January 1888
  3. Anne M: May 1889
  4. Julia O; October 1890
  5. Enos G; January 1892
  6. Henry H; May 1894
  7. Hellen A; February 1896
  8. Inga; March 1898
As you can see, the dates are off. All of us who knew and loved Grandma Julia Rye know that she was born 1889. Where is the tenth child? The tenth child had to have been Gertrude's because the census doesn't ask for how may sperms the male donated.

Why was Knute Olson, Ole's forty year old brother living with them? Is the one neice and two nephews children of Knute? Their names look like Gina, Carl O, and Johnny. The girl was fourteen and the boys 10 and 8.

Look too, and the variety of spellings of Halgrimson on Gertrude's death certificate and Holmgrimson in the obituary for her daughter, Julia Olette Olson Rye. Oh, this looks like a Sherlock mystery to solve. I will be really wrinkled when I find this out.

The only memory of Gertrude passed on to me was from Ella. I asked her what she remembered about her Grandmother. She remembered she was really nice and that she always had a clear candy dish with pink and white peppermints which she always shared with her grandchildren. We relived the candy dish by getting a clear dish and peppermints for her room at the nursing home. She said, "Now I have something to share with my grandchildren."

What is it about candy jars that tugs on the heart strings? That is another story for another day.

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Wahoo before Yahoo!


Shirley wrote a wonderful comment about the Wahoo! game the family played and how it was invented by Emil Mellem. I know for certain his board was made of wood and the example shown here is nothing like the one the Anderson kids played on but it shows the direction of the marble moves and how one puts their marbles in the slots, (teepees) marked in blue, red, yellow, and green.
I knew the board and played on it. It was well used and simple. There was no need to color the camp sites and have teepees to store the finished marbles. It was a great table game for any age.
In the house of Rachel, Bud, and Ryen there was a Wahoo board, as was there a board in every household of the children in the neighborhood. That happened because one Christmas, Bob made boards for all the households out a board with a piece of drilled holed paneling on top. The directions were on the back.
Now, Rachel and Bud thought the board was too plain and one snowy day, the three of us sat on the love seat in the living room on 21st Street, and made rivers, trees, and named each camp. I only remember one camp was Standing Bull. I have no idea what happened to the board; I looked when we came home from the lake yesterday but the board in the closet was Chinese Checkers.
The other thought I wanted to address is the kitchen table. Many of the families in the New Solum Township welcomed their guests to the kitchen to visit, rather than a living room or a parlor. It may have all started because they had a table. OR the source of heat was in the kitchen area where the table was.
My grandparents were like that. When you came to visit, that is where you sat. Visiting was cozier than being placed around the livingroom. Another reason may have been that food was always served. If you went in the morning, one had coffee and a cookie or doughnut. It you were there in the afternoon, there was more like a light lunch which may include bread and spread. But when ever you went, something to drink was always offered, often the coffee had to cooked.
The coffee was served right off the stove. We know how hot this coffee is. It is no wonder saucers were under cups. One cooled the coffee by pouring some out of the cup into the saucer. Blow and sip, blow and sip. No, louder sipping. That was the acceptable method of my grandparents, as they sat at the lunch cloth covered table.
I wish blow and sip would have been an option the first time Mrs. Anderson offered me a cup of coffee in 1962. I would not have taken a gulp and not wishing to spit it out, swallowed it. It burned all the way down. Obviously I had no idea how hot coffee made on the stove was.
When the "kids" came home, everyone piled into the kitchen and sat around the table. Lloyd and Ella's kitchen always had enough room. It had nothing to do with the size of the room, it had to do with the size of their hearts.
Shirley also mentioned Grandma Rye and her Parkinson's. She was quite a hostess. I remember her putting her hand into the coffee can and taking the coffee out shaking as she put it on top of the cold water in the stove pot.
Dorothy and Larry live in the county. When the family was going there to visit, the big dining room table was the place to be. When ever we went north to see Ella, the table was the place to be. Even when Tom and I visited her at the house on 13th Street, we sat at the table.
Whether one is playing Wahoo, or nursing a cup of coffee, the family table seems to have magic memories as it multi-tasked throughout the days, weeks, months, and years.
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Friday, June 8, 2007

The land that Thorinus and Pauline owned

This is for Saturday, June 9 posting.





Sometimes one has to be a seasoned never-give-up-before-you-give-out, I- will -try- again sort of person. Sometimes the answer to the question is right in your face. Sometimes one needs to think not so hard and not so what you know, rather in the realm of possibilities. Genealogy is like that.

I know, and have known for some time that most of the information on the Internet regarding genealogy has probably been keyed in at some off shore place by people that speak English as a second language and are literal about what they see. Do you know any Americans who would enter millions and millions of names to make the information available for pennies?

And so if it is the keying in, or the person who, in person at the land office who didn't understand a person's name or spelling thereof, one just has to take the name and play with it. In teaching genealogy, I have encouraged the people to try alternate spellings, to try parts of the name, to try mel* and see what happens. Try soundex. Try different sources to see if you can get just a piece of the thread. So, you see, I KNOW all this, but when it came to finding a land patent for Thorinus and Pauline Mellem, I let myself forget my own lessons.

I found myself talking to the folks at Warren. I wanted to do a blanket search on the Mellem land in New Solum. We all knew they were the pioneer homestead people. We needed that document. If they weren't the first settler's on the land, a search would show just who did own it first.

When the package arrived I was so excited to be able to trace OTHER parcels of land from land patent to present. I was deflated when I saw the first document naming Thorinus and Pauline was when they sold the land to their son. That meant the original patent was still out there.

I got out of my mental sod house and started doing what I was teaching others, I used alternate sources to see if I could find it that way. It is important to any of you looking for the land patents to know the search is very rigid, there is no mel*. You must submit a name spelling that THEY have.

Ancestry. com has the land patents. I found Thorinus and Pauline using Mel* and soundex.

And so it is when hunting for ancestors.





I found it, his name was listed as MELUM!





According to the certificate, on January 31, 1891, Thorinus and Pauline were granted homestead rights in parts of section 10,4, and 3. Part of this was Marshall County and part of it was Pennington. It was the "STRIP" between Marshall and Polk County. The Township numbers are 155 and 154.





In 1924, Thorinus and Pauline sold the land to his son, Carl for the sum of three thousand dollars. That is all the 160 acres he was 'given' in the Homestead Act of 1862.





Apparently, Carl put the land in his children's names. Maybe it is assumed they are part of it because it states heirs.





On the 17th of June, 1943, Alice, the oldest, was living in Spokane, Washington and sold the land to Minnie Mellem, her mother, for a sum of $1.00 except for a small parcel of land in northeast corner thereof described by meters and bounds as follows:





Beginning at the northeast corner of the SE 1/4 SW 1/4 of said section 3, thence running west 31 rods, (16.5 feet x 31=511.5 feet), along the forty line, thence south 8 rods, (16.5x8=132 feet), along the quarter line to the place of the beginning.





Then, on November 20, 1943, Sylvia Mellem, sold her share back to her mother.





On June 3, 1946, Chester Mellem who lived in Washington, Minnie Mellem, and Fern Mellem, sold their shares to Helmer Kalbakdalen from Walsh County, North Dakota. He too, had an exception to the land mention above. He paid $4,600 for it.





Now, that little parcel may have been where Nina and Olaf lived. It was always sectioned off.





Remember that Carl died April 04, 1938. I expected to see probate papers with the packet I got from the recorder's office in Warren, MN.





In looking over the paper work which I received, I see that EMIL MELLUM bought his land from John and Hilda Sagmoen in 1920 for $1348 dollars. This parcel land butts up against the T Mellem land.



Now what I need to do is send pink and yellow carnations to Berna at the recorder's office and find out about the little parcel of land set aside.



I have sent a copy of the land patent and a New Solum Township map with a print out of exactly what the land is to the grand children of Nina and Olaf. Anyone else want a hard copy, it is available by request.



And a special note to Shirley. It is people like you that give this blog the kind of color and life it requires to survive. I strongly encourage you and others to write away and as much as you can when ever you can. You see, this way we learn from one another and if I am off, I am put back on course. It helps my focus to keep my challenge. I salute you,--Shirley--are you listening?



To all of you. Something wild and crazy is about to happen. In 1985 or so, I opened the drawer on Ella Anderson's credenza. I offered to take all the pictures back and book them for her. One picture had a name and one had a date, the rest we sorted according to finishing, grouping families together as we thought. Rachel and Ryen remember the pictures spread out on the living room floor as we quality checked the finish types.



The four books were shipped to Ella. It was a rewarding labor of love. The books are in the possession of Shirley at the time of the writing. I will meet with her in Grand Forks and she will allow me to take the books to Fargo with me to scan and use in this blog. Yes, Kelsey, even the pictures of the dead people. Who is Kelsie? Kelsie, are you there?



This open gesture on her part will blow the blog out of the marsh. There are so many neat photos in those books that we will share. Pictures, I am certain the Anderson kids have looked at over the over and will remember. We will need your help to identify some of the photos.



I am off to fish, see you Monday!



Walleyewoman? Na..Bassbrass!



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Childen of Thorenus and Pauline Mellem

Thorinus and Pauline, Mellem's thirteen children


1. Peter who was born and died on January 10, 1876


2. Petronella who was born and died on May 1, 1879. There is no information regarding why these two infants died. I do know, in talking to people who have had children decease that it is forever painful to the parents; especially the mother.

3. Karen was born in Norway on February 2, 1877. She came to the states with her parents and after a time in North Dakota, settled with her family in New Solum Township. She later married Nick Bergvall. The information trail is cold.

4. The other child who was born in Norway was Thea, August 14, 1881-April 26, 1926 As you recall, Thea’s obituary, as well as her husband, Enoch, and their daughter, Myrtle has been previously posted on the blog. Thea is buried in lot one at Rindal Cemetery and Enoch is buried at Wildwood Cemetery. Other children include:, Ted, Carrie, and Eleanor.


Census shows us that in 1895, The Mellem’s were living in Ramsey County, MN, in 1900; in Rocksbury Township of Red Lake County, (later to be called Pennington after the split), by 1910 the family had moved to New Solum Township and according to the census, Thorinus and Pauline, and their children, remained in the area up to and including the 1930 census.

5. the next child, Carl Mellem was born while the family lived in North Dakota on September 04, 1883 and died April 04, 1938. Carl married Minnie Holson, sister of Lilly Holson Rafeseth of Rosewood. Together, Minnie and Carl had four children: Alice, Fern, Sylvia, and Chester on the 1930 census.


Also on the 1930 census, Thorinus Mellem was living close by. Carl was farming on farm 60 and Thorinus was living on 61. We remember that Pauline had died in 1927.

In the 1920 census, Carl at 36 and Minnie at 28, had one child, Alice. Thorinus and Pauline were living close by.

In 1900, all the children born until that date were living at home as well as Thea who was married to Enoch Nelson and their twins Mrytle and Carrie. Thea was 18 and Enoch was 36. Pauline was now 43. If the numbers are right, she had her last child just two years before.

6. Theoline; August 14, 1885, married SS Norgaard of Viking. Although information regarding their deaths is not known, the Rosewood News states several visits by other members of the family. LaVerne Bloom was said to be visiting his friends!

7. Next on the birth order is Peter, March 21, 1897 to September 22, 1966. He married Caroline Lappagaard, a sister in law to Hazel Rye Lappagaard. Peter is buried in Rindal, lot 59, along with the Mellem twins and another baby and Caroline.

Before I go on to the next person in the order, I want to stop and reflect on this couple. Pete owned land in the Rosewood area, he worked to get drainage ditches in this marshy county and he worked to grade the roads. After he moved to Thief River Falls, he worked at the golf course keeping the grounds in A+ condition.

His wife, Caroline, was a wonderful soul. All who knew her loved her. The two of them were known as Pete and Lena, OR Mrs. Lena Pete. Shirley told me they lived near them on the 1200 block on Knight Avenue and loved to visit with her. Mrs. Pete was a big tease!

My grandparents, Julia and Benhard Ranum and Pete and Lena played cards together over the decades, first at Rosewood, then later, in town. They played cards until near midnight, and then would have a lunch before they went home.

I know there are stories out there about this couple. I think the one that is the most sensitive to me is this: Peter Mellem died in September 1966 and my grandmother, died in November of 1966. It was disturbing to my grandfather to loose a great wife and a good friend in just a couple of months. Mrs. Pete and Grandpa spent some time together after that. When Grandpa had his half brother, Otto and his wife live with him that winter, the four of them would play cards until midnight, but it was never the same.

8. Another child was Emil Mellem: April 16, 1889-January 28, 1971. Emil was in the service during WWI.

Rosewood News Emil Mellem was home from Langdon, ND last Sunday to bid good bye to his friends and relatives before leaving for the military training camp, where he has enlisted as a carpenter.


May 1918 Rosewood News Nina Anderson received a letter from her brother, Emil Mellem, that morning stating that he had arrived safely in France. Mr. Mellem enlisted last summer.

Emil returned from the service and married Hilda Hanson; January 6, 1895-May 29, 1988. Their children were/are: Ervin, Harlan, and Enid.

3 21 1940
Rosewood News Ervin Mellem entertained a number of friends at his home Saturday evening. Games were played and at midnight, Mrs. Emil Mellem served a delicious lunch to the group. Those attending were; Adrian, Alton, and Audrey Nelson, Chester Engelstad, Ina and Elna Crown, Alice, Fern, and Chester Mellem, Oliver Rye, Arnold Harvey and Donald Hanson, Wallace and Mavis Anderson, Vernon and Joyce Mellem, Helen, Jean, Betty, and Dorothy Wood, Florence and Victor Hellquist, Gene Hallin, Leona Asasby (sp), LaVerne Bloom, Clifford Rye, Bob Wood and Mrs. Emma Hanson

Harlan told me at an all class reunion about how Stan and Harry Ranum would help them with money for shoes. He also shared that once a bull was after my grandfather and he, Harlan, ‘ran interference'!

Enid married Rolland Sande. They were married on the Sande farm west of town on MN HWY one. Rolland and Enid took over the farm and raised milk cows. They had a beautiful herd of Holsteins. Before changed and demanded the milk go from the milking machine to the big tank, I used to ride my bike to their farm and get raw milk. I liked to watch when they fed the barn cats. The kittens learned early to wait for a squirt of milk.

Sande’s had four children: Gary, the oldest, liked to grab the cows tail and have her run while he slid along behind. Lynnelle was next, followed by Gail then Carol.

The farm was auction off in 2004.

9. Nina ; July 29, 1891- November 03, 1963,
Olaf A. Anderson; December 03, 1871-October 01, 1917
Married on March 11, 1907.


Andrew Anderson; August 15, 1908-August 15, 1908

Newell Emanuel Anderson; December 05, 1909-September 25, 1927

Lloyd Paul Anderson; September 02, 1911-October 05, 1967

Ella Elvina Rye; Ella Elvina Rye; December 3, 1915

Married on March 17, 1934.

10. Tina; August 1893 married Alfred Carlson

11. Ella; December 1, 1895-August, 1971 is buried in Roseau. She married Henning Backlund. After Pauline’s death, Thorinus visited all of his children often. The Backlund’s are mentioned frequently.

12. Mabel Rosalie; August 1, 1898 married John Bergland. I did not find information on either of them in the three sources I use; Pennington County Historical Society, Minnesota Historical Society, and the SSDI on Ancestry.com